I’m going to divide this blog into two different sections: my perspective on kindergarten as a speech-language pathologist, and my experience as a mom whose daughter JUST started Pre-K last week 😭.
I’m going to make my responses short and sweet. Oh, and they’re the same from both a professional AND a mom perspective.
The answer . . . it’s a resounding YES! School does help with speech development and here’s why!
As parents/guardians/caregivers, we anticipate what our children need, we read between the lines, we let them pull us to what they need and to use more gestures than words. In a school setting, this will not happen. They will need to learn to communicate their needs and wants to both other children and adults in the facility.
‘Auditory processing’ is when you hear information, understand it, and then are able to respond verbally or in written format. At home, children usually don’t have to multi-task, but in the school setting, children are asked to follow multi-step directions and sequences. This is directly related to receptive (what is being understood) AND expressive (what is being produced) language – both key for speech and language skills.
Some children with a language disorder struggle with social pragmatics, or the social rules of language. There is no place more challenging for these students than the playground, the lunch room, and certain settings in the classroom or hallway. During the summer, the child more often has choices about who to socialize with and for how long, but at school, the peer group and schedule is fairly fixed. Students must navigate the complex world of body language, facial expressions, emotions, and social language. This is an all-day demand that begins when the student gets on the bus and lasts until s/he returns home.
Being in school exposes a child to other children who are not like them. They may speak different languages, have a dialect, or know different vocabulary words. Not only does it teach them about acceptance (before they even realize what that term means), but these are all key components to enhancing speech and language skills.
My daughter just started Pre-K last week. It has been an amazing experience for her, so far. I mean, she caught a cold/virus the first week and then passed it on to her little brother, but hey . . . you win some, you lose some, right?
Nora has always been a talkative kid and her speech has always been “advanced,” BUT, the FIRST day she came home she was talking about jumping rope and making strawberry smoothies. She was exposed to new words instantly, whether it was from the teachers OR the kids.
Her sentences were becoming longer and more complex. She was adding things like “it,” “finally,” and “never” into her speech more consistently, and was beginning to use conjunctions to make longer sentences.
Typically, we’d ask her questions and if she felt like answering, she would. Now, as soon as she gets into the car, we ask her WHAT she did, WHO she played with, and WHEN something occurred. She actually wanted to tell us about her day and was excited to see our reactions.
So, when your child starts school is up to you, but I would highly suggest that you try and get them into Pre-K before entering kindergarten.
Pre-K programs work on many foundation skills needed for kindergarten, and they also work on important speech and language skills that are, often times, overlooked or underestimated.
If you can’t do Pre-K (goodness knows it is sooooo expensive), I encourage you to look for social groups, mommy and me classes, and download Speech Blubs to increase those necessary language skills!
The more language your child is exposed to, the better their learning experience will be!
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